SISTERHOOD OF SURVIVORS

Forty-five Maine women survivors aged 18 to 83 are standing proud and speaking loud on posters and bookmarks to educate the general public, and to let others know they are not alone, it is not their shame, and there IS a way out.

View video recordings of survivors sharing their experiences on our Survivor Voices page.

Click on our names below to hear our voices.

Photo portraits by Patrisha McLean

Know your worth.

He stole my glasses so I couldn’t see.

Amy

In his Maine State Police uniform he put his gun to my head. Three times. No consequences.

He threatened to shoot our dog.

When it's your mother doing it, you make a million excuses for her.

He told me no one else would ever love me.

I couldn't figure out when I fell off the pedestal.

Everything he did to me, he said I did to him.

He didn't hurt me physically, but he tortured me psychologically.

I couldn’t see my family.

Deb

Start with the truth of it: things will not change. Now gather your strength and your courage; move forward.

He shot and killed my mother in front of us. I was nine.

Eve

Now I can be ME!

I am taking back my power.

It got worse when I was pregnant.

Ida

My body and mind are my own again.

Jackie (daughter of Patrisha McLean)

I am done being manipulated, controlled, afraid, and silenced.

He punched me in the face.

Governor
Janet T. Mills

Domestic Violence affects everyone. Years ago, a man I loved threatened my life. Escape from violence is possible.

I was drowning in financial and court abuse.

There are five other victims before us that we know about.

He told me I was fat and ugly and he was the only one who loved me.

I thought if I just loved him enough, he wouldn’t want to hurt me.

My father almost killed my mother. I loved him.

My mother was afraid he would smash my hands so I couldn't work [hairdresser].

I was the sole income earner and I had to ask for spending money.

When he bought an axe I knew I had to leave.

It was emotional abuse every single day.

Liz

I had to get out to hear my voice.

He said he would kill himself, me, our two girls, and our pets.

It’s never too late to leave.

Meg

My college boyfriend threatened to kill himself if I left him.

Mel

I survived and you can, too!

Melody

The first step to change is talking about it.

Mia

No one around me spoke up either.

Like pimps, they make you believe they will take care of you.

He threatened to burn down our house with all of us in it.

He smashed my cell phone.

I was silent for 29 years.

I completely lost my sense of self.

He put a tracking device on my car.

I never realized how subtle it could be.

She threatened to tell everyone I was a terrible mother.