This project focuses on female Survivors, for the reasons below.
ALL victims of domestic violence and abuse deserve compassion, support, and help. Regardless of gender, age, orientation, class, or demographics, if you think you might be in an abusive relationship, GET HELP.
THE POWER & CONTROL WHEEL
Look at the Power and Control Wheels created by the Survivors featured in Finding Our Voices and you will notice abusers are all the same; they differ only in how they carry out the various abusive tactics outlined on this Wheel.
If you have an intimate partner who is abusing you, you will come to realize that he is not just "a jerk" sometimes. He is An Abuser. And he is not going to change.
This Wheel shows all the ways abusers terrorize their partners. Victims tend to minimize the domestic abuse they suffer, thinking that if they do not have a black eye it is not domestic abuse. Yet mental and emotional cruelty from someone purporting to love you can be even more painful and damaging than physical abuse.